When you hear people talking about one night stand, what is your first impression? No strings attached? Endless pleasure without taking any responsibility? Bad memories? Oh, yes. One night dating can be both good and bad. After all, it usually happens between two strangers who doesn’t know each other. You can’t expect that you two just click. There is hardly such good luck for us. Therefore, it’s necessary to do some homework and preview before the actual practice. Here are 3 tips:
Confirm your expectations to this experience with them. Lots of girls wouldn't usually admit that they want casual hookup and one night stand, because they think they are framed by a stereotype that they would be a slut if they admit having such thought. Well, as a matter of fact, this is becoming increasingly normal and common these days.
So don't be fraid to speak up your true intentions if you only want a one night hookup. Guys are also interested your status on this issue. Instead of keeping them wondering your answer, you might as well be straight and honest with them. Without any mystery between you, you will have bigger chance to have a pleasant hook up experience.
Let down your guard. By saying this, we must have one pre-requisite, that is your safety is ensured and that you are certain of your safety with this guy. As soon as mutual trust is established, it's time to let down your guard. As long as you keep being alerted, you are not going to enjoy this experience. But how to let down your guard. Just imagine you are playing around with someone you are familiar with, someone you can share anything with. If you are nervous, tell him. It's okay to be nervous. First time can be very intimidating. Once you let your guard down and let your partner in, you will feel a lot more relaxed.
Share your preferences. This is your first time with this guy, so how are you going to find out each other's preference if you don't talk about it. Therefore, if you want to have a successful one night stand experience that makes each other happy and satisfied, the only way is to talk and communicate. There is no time to explore and find that out by yourself. Communication is the most effective way. So don't be afraid and don't be shy. Start talking!
IF you have any sexual fantasy that you want to try with your partner or you have some preferences in bed, this is the time to say it. It might be a little awkward at first, but once you both get used to it, you'll find it very effective and helpful. Don't make yourself regret not having such talk.
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